Is It Safe for a Parent With Dementia to Stay Home Alone? A Guide for Pomona Families

By Amada Pomona |

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Article Summary

Families need to carefully assess whether a parent with dementia can safely stay home alone, as abilities change with the disease’s progression. Learn key warning signs that it’s time for more support, practical safety measures you can take at home, and how to plan ahead as your parent’s needs evolve.

When a parent is diagnosed with Alzheimer’s or another form of dementia, one of the first questions families ask is whether it’s still safe for them to stay home alone. In the early stages, many people can manage on their own for parts of the day. As memory and judgment change, that becomes harder to judge. For families in Pomona, Diamond Bar, Walnut, West Covina, Rowland Heights and Montclair, here’s how to tell when a parent needs more support at home.

Signs a parent may be able to stay alone for short periods

They follow their usual daily routine without reminders
They know how to call family or 911 in an emergency
They eat regular meals and take medications as directed
They stay in the house or follow familiar routes without getting lost

Warning signs it’s no longer safe

Leaving the stove, oven or water running
Getting lost, or leaving home at night
Missing or doubling up on medications
Skipping meals, or old food left in the refrigerator
Falls, new bruises or unexplained injuries
Answering the door to strangers or sharing personal information on the phone
Becoming anxious or upset when alone

Steps that can make home safer

Install stove knob covers or an automatic shut-off device
Add door chimes or alarms so family knows when a door opens
Lock away medications, cleaning products and car keys
Keep a large-print list of emergency numbers by the phone
Use a medical alert pendant or watch
Arrange daily check-in calls at set times

Plan for change

Dementia changes over time, so a plan that works today may not work in a few months. Check in often, write down any new concerns, and talk with your parent’s doctor about what you notice. It helps to plan the next step before there’s an emergency.

Questions to ask a home care agency

Are your caregivers trained to support people living with dementia?
Can care start with a few hours a day and grow over time?
Do you offer overnight or around-the-clock care if it’s needed later?
Will my parent see the same caregivers, so they feel comfortable?

How a caregiver can help

A caregiver can keep your parent company during the hours they’re alone, help with meals, medication reminders, bathing and dressing, and keep a steady daily routine. Even a few hours a day can lower the risk of accidents and give family members peace of mind.

Dementia care at home in the Pomona area

Amada Senior Care Pomona helps families in Pomona, Diamond Bar, Walnut, West Covina, Rowland Heights and Montclair care for a parent with dementia at home. Learn more about our dementia care, or call us any time to talk through what would help your family.

Amada Senior Care Pomona

1370 Valley Vista Dr, Suite 200, Diamond Bar, CA 91765

909-342-6134

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